When I was about 16 weeks pregnant with #1, I was informed that I had an anterior placenta. Not a big deal, it would just make it much harder to feel movement. (There is some debate as to whether or not an anterior placenta more often leads to a posterior birth - which #1 had - but that is not the point of this.) Seeing as it was my first pregnancy to go past 9 weeks, I had no idea what movement felt like anyway. I didn't feel #1 until well after 20 weeks. Then during the pregnancy, there was a time that I hadn't been able to feel her for way too long, so we went to the Dr, hooked me up to a machine, and I got to listen to her heartbeat for 30 min. Well, 30 min on and off. She kept wiggling, so it was hard to stay right on her heartbeat. But wiggling was fine, we were just checking to make sure she was doing well, and wiggling was a great sign of that. As a general rule, the only way Hod could feel #1 moving was when he would squish my stomach. Basically we had to get her ticked off in order to feel movement from the outside.
Well, with #2, it couldn't be more different. Around 11 weeks I thought I could feel her moving. (I know, that is super early, but there was something moving around inside of me and it wasn't a normal feeling. It was new.) Hod has been able to feel her for a few months now. She is a wiggler and a kicker! Most of the time that is just fine with me. It makes me giggle when I get a minute to sit down and read, and I rest the book on my tummy only to have #2 kick it off. I have been amazed at how it feels when she kicks. It is so different than with #1.
Part of me thinks that #1 and #2 are already friends. Well... maybe friends is the wrong word. Every time I am sitting with #1 and #2 kicks, #1 gets a concerned look on her face and hits my stomach. Then #2 kicks back and they go on for a bit. I think this is how they communicate their plans for the night time. They have this awesome schedule where every 45 min #2 will kick my bladder as hard as possible, thus waking me up and often making me run to the restroom. Along with this, every 4 hours #1 is waking up and wanting to play.
This makes for a pretty tired Paily. But it is a lot of fun feeling all of the kicking going on!